Advice

It is a rare thing for friends to speak up unasked and give advice of their own accord. Such actions are courageous and particularly worthy as they risk rejection and criticism, even endangering friendship – it is an especially valuable act of friendship.

Freedom

Freedom means both: to act consciously and to take on responsibility

On Pain

suffering        suffering suffering        suffering suffering        suffering acceptance    aggression peace              war

About expectations

You cannot expect that others change – even if they love you and you love them

Victory

Usually only winners win.